How do you get a non-talking girl to talk?
It’s about this girl I met recently. So I tried small talk but her answers were pretty much one-word answers. "Yeah", "yeah" and "no", "no" – just basically agreeing with everything I would say! Then I noticed she was the same with other people and isn’t the type to talk much. Just quiet. Or maybe she finds it hard to come out of her shell.
So what do you do? Any tips? I am a bit curious about her now.
ask her a NON-personal question that requires a long answer.
maybe something like, "why do you enjoy ____ so much?" thats not supposed to be a perverted question lol just fill in the blank with something you know about her.
or trry coming up with your own questions cause i got nothing.
Ask her about herself. Everyone wants to talk about themselves.
DUDE –>> THAT’S THE BEST KIND OF WOMAN!!!!
I swear. One who agrees with you, says yes and shuts the f____k up.
Man – don’t let that one go!
"The men up there don’t like a lot of chatter,
They think a girl who gossips is a bore.
But they dote and swoon and fawn,
at a lady who’s withdrawn…
It’s she who holds her tongue who gets her Man."
- The Little Mermaid.
(Walt Disney)
Honestly.. your last statement is what you need to read over again.. because thats what we want! For guys to be curious about us.. (: we try to be mysterious, ya know? So it’s more of a challenge for the guy because he has no clue how we are feeling. So i would just say to say nice things and work on growing a closer friendship; she’ll eventually open up!